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This is the story of a mother and her daughter who are trying everything they can to get their youngest daughter / sister out of the clutches of Merton Council who want to give her to adopters.

She was 2 when they were separated 4 years ago…

Laila saw her daughter last on her birthday 30 April 2013.

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  1. To whom may concern,
    Please help me anyone anybody, my name is Charlie please Can you help me get my baby back i done nothing wrong.

    SOCIAL SERVICES ARE SCUM THEY KNEW I WAS BEING ABUSED AND DID NOTHING NOW THEY WANT MY BABY THIS CAN’T GO ON SOMEONE ANYONE. STOP THIS MADNESS INNOCENT FAMILY’S ARE GETTING TORN APART. This explains the situation that I am and how social services are treating me. I apologise for the language I used to explain how I feel I hope you don’t find it offensive.

    Devon Social services knew i was being abused when i was one years old they knew i was being sexually abused when i was five. They didn’t believe me because my mother said i was telling lies. Nothing was done about the abuse i was underweight not fed properly covered in scares because i was kept in a nappy to long and got burnt by the urine. I was sexually abused i was punched/ hit thrown across the room locked in a room made to talk to myself saying i am a bad child and i should be seen and not heard spoil the rod and beat the child, talk to the wall. Watch my bitch of the mother get beat and sexually assaulted, sexually abused by my mother and her Boyfriend. My farther almost killed me i wish it was me who got murdered not my brother. This crazy shit goes on and on am so fucking angry that social services knew i was being abused and did not intervene they could of save my fucking life and did fuck all until i told a school friend when i was nine years old i was put into care that’s another story . If i was saved and adopted i wouldn’t be who i am today. Yesterday I was reading the news on BBC I can across a article about Devon Social services being responsible for letting a child be abused for over five years and didn’t do anything to help. I lived in Devon and social service was aware my siblings and I was being abused a year after I was born they didn’t do anything.

    I have tried to take my own life when i was a teenager i self-harmed because i couldn’t cope with this crazy shit i had nobody when i did trust the very few people i did trust they left me and moved on. I gave up trusting people when i was a child i craved for someone to love me. I dreamed to have a mother figure someone who can look after me to make me feel wanted loved special did i get that no the staff in the children’s homes are not allowed to get emotional involved hello i was a fucking child. I met my partner nearly five years ago he’s the only person that has made me feel loved. He never judged me gave up on me nor thought i was bad he’s my hero. Social services got involved because of historical relating to my partner social services knew my baby couldn’t get took of us because of what happened ect.

    Guess what instead they used my childhood as a excuse saying they are concerned about my ability to look after a child. This is outrageous not everyone who was abused as a child becomes abusers in the future. As a result the social worker wanted me to go to Dudley Lodge i went voluntary because if i didn’t go my baby would of got took they didn’t say this although but my solicitor said it. Dudley Lodge terminated my placement saying they had concerns in regards to Olivia’s safety and i couldn’t attend her basic needs .Again why do social service and people involved like making up story’s they are wreaking life’s here. I can honestly admit i made a few little mistakes when living at Dudley Lodge like falling asleep in bed with Olivia i can assure you that she was safe and secure as she had one of those breastfeeding pillows around her body .And another concern was that i didn’t pick up her feeding ques the first couple of weeks. This is how petty the concerns are the case manager Cheryl addressed these as major concerns.

    My baby was took of my eight weeks ago the social worker wants my angel to be adopted. Olivia is on a ICO i go to court in July for a three day final hearing i am desperately need wittiness for court people who lived at Dudley can testify to support my case please help me get my baby back ive done nothing wrong its killing me being apart from her. Yes some parents are a risk to their children in my case its totally different based on hearsay staff writing what they observe in their own wording which gives out the wrong impression to the minor concern at the time making it worse then it’s out to be.

    I was forced to go to Dudley lodge to avoid court I was told that I would get the help I needed and that I will benefit from being there. I was expecting to get help for my personal problems relating from my traumatic childhood. When I moved here it wasn’t what I had expected it to be. All throughout my stay the staff were saying my partner is that this ect one staff in particular was nasty about my partner almost every time I spoke about him. I was getting confused because I didn’t know what to think about him I felt as they were trying to make me think like them in the terms that not to live with someone who made a mistake many years ago . I thought the staff were to support me I felt as I was put under immense stress. I thought that they were going to help my parenting skills but I wasn’t provided with the help I needed. I felt that I was constantly judged for not doing a good enough job.

    I felt vulnerable because I had no one to talk to when I felt down because everything I said was typed up on the laptop all written down on paper I was watched constantly I had no privacy I couldn’t trust the staff or discuss my concerns I was in constant fear that not knowing if I done anything wrong as I wasn’t always told and kept on panicking I would get bad marked. When staff said they had concerns about my parenting skills and that I couldn’t attend my baby’s basic needs I felt as I was punched in the stomach as I tried my hardest to satisfy the staff. I was told no parent is perfect at the same time they wanted me to do a perfect job. I had no chance bringing my baby up my own way I had to do what I was told and do it the way the staff wanted me to each staff told and showed me different things it was confusing one staff member told me to do something this way and the other that way. I can admit am not the easiest person to work with and I can be difficult at times with no fault of my own I have never been taught throughout my childhood / adulthood to be a certain way what am expected to be like I just survived the only way I knew best how to be.

    Every time my baby cried even when I was in the bathroom I panicked because I didn’t want the staff to think I was neglecting her because I was told I couldn’t leave her more than five minutes to cry. I was told it’s not like a prison yet again I couldn’t go out when I wanted it really is a big brother environment when I was upset I couldn’t go anywhere to be on my own to clear my head as I didn’t want the staff to write down I abandoned my baby not attending to her basic needs. I understand that every new mum gets tired being up with her baby throughout the night I got to the point that I became exhausted and found it difficult to concentrate on a daily basis I wanted to give up and leave as I couldn’t cope with the way I was being treated I decided to try even harder because I want to stay with my baby. I desperately wanted someone to help me though the first couple of weeks to be there for me to support me not to have a go at me if I didn’t do a good enough job. If I was at home with my partner he would have been there to support me. Living at Dudley Lodge I felt myself become withdrawn then slowly getting depressed this is due to the constant pressure I was under on a daily basic as well as the assessment work I had to do. The groups I had to attend I started having memories from what happened to me as a child and no councillors or therapists were provided for me only a Psychologist I saw once a week I requested to see. I don’t know why every concern was used agenised me and misrepresented to make out worse than it actually was.

    For example when my baby was crying for a feed the staff often said she was clearly distressed showing signs of distress. Yes my baby was crying it’s the only way babies can communicate but I can assure you she wasn’t distressed. Another example is I was making up my baby’s bottle of six ounces of Aptilmil I put in five scoops of milk then realised I only had one scoop left in the tub I then scraped in half an ounce and another half to complete the six ounce of milk. The same staff member I found out who addressed five concerns in regards to my parenting that day which brought my placement to an end.

    Anyway I then shook the bottle and put it under cold water to cool down then placing it in a jug of cold water to cool down. For some reason I said its perfect a word I always say meaning its ready-made .She felt it and said it’s too hot and wrote down the milk left a red mark on her wrist. The staff know I always breast feed whilst the bottled milk is cooling down am not stupid enough to give my baby hot milk even although I stated I am going to breast feed before this member of staff has never worked with me before.

    The case manager Cheryl addressed these as major concerns even although I tried to explain what happened she has never listened to me when I tried to explain things it’s not right that the staff don’t write down on the laptops or paper what I had to say about the situation I feel I was never heard when living at Dudley Lodge whatever the staff say all how its worded they are always believed they can get away with it to what about my rights its being made out I failed the course and that am not a fit mother who can parent her baby. It goes on and on i will be here all day if i mentioned all of the errors Dudley Lodge done.

    The social worker wants my baby to be adopted and I can only see my daughter once a fortnight only for two hours my daughter will forget me by then. I also breastfeed when the social worker rung me the day my baby was took of me on Thursday the 20th of February. I said I need to breastfeed my baby how am I going to breastfeed my baby she said I can’t and my baby will be bottle fed from now on this is agenised mine and my daughter’s human rights. Now I can see my baby three times a week the social worker still wants my baby to be adopted. I have had a Psychological assessment carried out the other week by a independent psychologist if it turns out am not what people make me out to be I hope this will help me get my baby back.

    Social services let me get abused for nine years and knew. But didn’t do anything they are abusing me all over again. Now they want to steal my baby they are what i am today they need to admit they failed me you fucked up my life and you want to fuck up my baby’s life this is emotional abuse i did nothing wrong i was treated unfair whilst living at Dudley Lodge giving conflicted advice on a daily basis. You bullied me you made me think i was a bad mother ,you constantly said bad things about my partner, You made me attend the groups knowing they distressed me .

    You provided me with no therapy even although i asked for it. You constantly criticized me you made small concerns what first time mothers make into major concerns and worded the observations to sound allot worse than they actually were. I explained why i was confused by the conflicted information you didn’t care what i had to say .

    A begging for help letter did i get anywhere no

    two months ago my baby was taken from us by Social Services. Not because of my fella’s past, although that has had some effect on things, but because Social Services believe that my past will affect my ability to mother my child. A belief that they have gone to extraordinary lengths to prove to the rest of the world to justify their actions. It is not enough that they have all the “statistics” and “public support” on their side; they have employed misinformation, misdirection and misrepresentation from the start.

    They have accentuated minor or incorrect information about my mental health, listing it as a concern and then minimising its relevance. They provide short notice of “important” meetings and fail to provide, in time, the documents we need for them. Care Plans are constantly changed and contain incorrect “facts” that disfavour us. They have the arrogance to believe that they are above the Law and the act comfort of knowing that they are untouchable and immune from intervention because “court proceedings are under way”. Our complaints will not be heard until these proceedings are resolved, not even my MP can intervene because of this. They have decided that the only option is for my baby to be adopted and are merely waiting for the Courts to confirm this. They have interfered with my right to breast feed my daughter; with the bonding of my daughter with that of myself and my fella.

    When my baby was first taken into Care we were informed that access would be once every two weeks and then only for two hours. That there was no need to provide any more or for the continuation of breast feeding because my baby’s future had now been “switched” to the only alternative of adoption. We have since managed to increase access to two hours twice a week and more recently an additional two hours and the right to breast feed. But only after much stress had been placed on my relationship with my fella. All in the name of my daughter’s best interests.

    I have done nothing wrong, but I have to pay the price. I am what the State made me as a result of looking after my “best interests”. Now they want to do the same to my baby. I want to break the cycle but they won’t let me and are intent on keeping it turning. My fella is currently unemployed, and in a sense that is a good thing because there is no way he could keep a job and attend all the Court Hearings, Meetings and see his daughter. Because despite the fact we live in a “24 hour” world and our lives are based around a 24 hour day. Everything stops at 5pm (4pm in the case of the Courts) and starts again at 9am the following morning – unless it is Friday. There is absolutely no support for us outside of those times. My baby has a Social Worker and a Court appointed Guardian, we have nobody. So my fella has to stop his search for work and have very limited flexibility for interview – on occasion he has had to cancel or reschedule them. The effect this may have on his success is unknown and incalculable. He is a qualified professional and can have as many as four or five interviews a week.

    I feel that I have being targeted because I fell in love with someone who has done wrong in the past and Social Services can’t affect him directly but are doing it through me. They were probably surprised that he put his name on my baby’s Birth Certificate. They have decided to use my traumatic childhood as an excuse and a reason as to why I can’t parent my baby. The Family Assessment Centre chosen by Social Services in order to assess me terminated the assessment. I was told I couldn’t attend to my baby’s basic needs, a verdict that is probably only good for roses. . I received conflicted advice on a daily basis, getting told to do the same different ways by different staff.

    The “concern” that triggered the ICO was basically over the feeding regime. My local Midwifery Team and Maternity Staff advocated and taught an interpretation of the WHO recommendations that essentially translates as “feeding on demand”. Whilst the Assessment Centre (in a different county) were firmly insistent that I feed at regular intervals even if it meant I had to force feed my baby another 6ozs of milk when she had had a similar amount two or four hours ago, or that I had to wake her up on schedule to feed her.

    It was my defence and reasoning of what I had been taught that gave rise to those particular misgivings. Add to that the daily reports and observations that eventually got back to Social Services third hand, unchallenged and without any provenance other that “it was what was written down at the time”. It comes as no surprise that they “jumped” at opportunity that this presented in order to get an ICO. All in the best interest of my baby, to avoid having to get an emergency one (as it would not be granted as my baby was in no immediate danger). An ICO we had no real chance of defending and were advised to “neither agree nor not agree” to.

    I miss my baby so much and it’s killing me being apart from her. I just want her back with me my baby needs her mum. What I am guilty of? Not fully engaging with the staff because I felt that some of them were openly hostile towards me, with an even worse hostility towards my fella? Resisting their attempts to try and change my thinking in a negative way, similar to brainwashing?

    I stuck to my guns and didn’t give the staff the responses and answers they wanted. I now wish that I acted like a puppet on strings. I wish that someone somebody can help and support me to get my baby back. Social Services only have to win one battle, and even then they are not playing fair. My fella and I have to win four and, having “lost” one, it would seem that Social Services don’t want to allow us any chance with the other three. For the seven months leading up to my baby’s birth – when we had “the time” to resolves these other issues. Nothing was done except delay and delay.

    My name is Charlie I was forced to go to Dudley lodge to avoid court I was told that I would get the help I needed and that I will benefit from being there. I was expecting to get help for my personal problems relating from my traumatic childhood. When I moved here it wasn’t what I had expected it to be. All throughout my stay the staff were saying my partner is that this ect one staff in particular was nasty about my partner almost every time I spoke about him. I was getting confused because I didn’t know what to think about him I felt as they were trying to make me think like them in the terms that not to live with someone who made a mistake many years ago . I thought the staff were to support me I felt as I was put under immense stress. I thought that they were going to help my parenting skills but I wasn’t provided with the help I needed. I felt that I was constantly judged for not doing a good enough job.

    I felt vulnerable because I had no one to talk to when I felt down because everything I said was typed up on the laptop all written down on paper I was watched constantly I had no privacy I couldn’t trust the staff or discuss my concerns I was in constant fear that not knowing if I done anything wrong as I wasn’t always told and kept on panicking I would get bad marked. When staff said they had concerns about my parenting skills and that I couldn’t attend my baby’s basic needs I felt as I was punched in the stomach as I tried my hardest to satisfy the staff. I was told no parent is perfect at the same time they wanted me to do a perfect job. I had no chance bringing my baby up my own way I had to do what I was told and do it the way the staff wanted me to each staff told and showed me different things it was confusing one staff member told me to do something this way and the other that way. I can admit am not the easiest person to work with and I can be difficult at times with no fault of my own I have never been taught throughout my childhood / adulthood to be a certain way what am expected to be like I just survived the only way I knew best how to be.

    Every time my baby cried even when I was in the bathroom I panicked because I didn’t want the staff to think I was neglecting her because I was told I couldn’t leave her more than five minutes to cry. I was told it’s not like a prison yet again I couldn’t go out when I wanted it really is a big brother environment when I was upset I couldn’t go anywhere to be on my own to clear my head as I didn’t want the staff to write down I abandoned my baby not attending to her basic needs. I understand that every new mum gets tired being up with her baby throughout the night I got to the point that I became exhausted and found it difficult to concentrate on a daily basis I wanted to give up and leave as I couldn’t cope with the way I was being treated I decided to try even harder because I want to stay with my baby. I desperately wanted someone to help me though the first couple of weeks to be there for me to support me not to have a go at me if I didn’t do a good enough job. If I was at home with my partner would have been there to support me. Living at Dudley Lodge I felt myself become withdrawn then slowly getting depressed this is due to the constant pressure I was under on a daily basic as well as the assessment work I had to do. The groups I had to attend I started having memories from what happened to me as a child and no councillors or therapists were provided for me only a Psychologist I saw once a week I requested to see. I don’t know why every concern was used agenised me and misrepresented to make out worse than it actually was.

    For example when my baby was crying for a feed the staff often said she was clearly distressed showing signs of distress. Yes my baby was crying it’s the only way babies can communicate but I can assure you she wasn’t distressed. Another example is I was making up my baby’s bottle of six ounces of Aptilmil I put in five scoops of milk then realised I only had one scoop left in the tub I then scraped in half an ounce and another half to complete the six ounce of milk. The same staff member I found out who addressed five concerns in regards to my parenting that day which brought my placement to an end.

    Anyway I then shook the bottle and put it under cold water to cool down then placing it in a jug of cold water to cool down. For some reason I said its perfect a word I always say meaning its ready-made .She felt it and said it’s too hot and wrote down the milk left a red mark on her wrist. The staff know I always breast feed whilst the bottled milk is cooling down am not stupid enough to give my baby hot milk even although I stated I am going to breast feed before this member of staff has never worked with me before.

    The case manager Cheryl addressed these as major concerns even although I tried to explain what happened she has never listened to me when I tried to explain things it’s not right that the staff don’t write down on the laptops or paper what I had to say about the situation I feel I was never heard when living at Dudley Lodge whatever the staff say all how its worded they are always believed they can get away with it to what about my rights its being made out I failed the course and that am not a fit mother who can parent her baby. It goes on and on i will be here all day if i mentioned all of the errors Dudley Lodge done.

    The social worker wants my baby to be adopted and I can only see my daughter once a fortnight only for two hours my daughter will forget me by then. I also breastfeed when the social worker rung me the day my baby was took of me on Thursday the 20th of February. I said I need to breastfeed my baby how am I going to breastfeed my baby she said I can’t and my baby will be bottle fed from now on this is agenised mine and my daughter’s human rights. Now I can see my baby three times a week the social worker still wants my baby to be adopted. I have had a Psychological assessment carried out the other week by a independent psychologist if it turns out am not what people make me out to be I hope this will help me get my baby back.

    Whilst living at Dudley I had concerns with the way I found my baby when she was in staff care and noticing things when I picked my baby up when I got back in from spending time with my partner . Whilst I was allowed to spend time with my partner for the twos hours I was allowed with him most of these concerns I have addressed with the staff but they didn’t do anything about the concerns and brushed them under their feet and tried to ignore my concerns also trying to blame me and to make excuses . I also wrote two complaints about staff members but nothing was done about the staff I complained about and I have heard nothing. This also includes the way some of the staff treated me.
    Some of this information I am going to address below, the staff have documented I doubt very much that Cheryl, the case manager, would admit these concerns that happened at Dudley Lodge even although there is evidence. Cheryl thinks I was treated right, in fact she’s not being totally honest about what did happen whist I was living at Dudley Lodge. I had no support from staff when attending Court, Cheryl wouldn’t support me going with a member of staff and she said I had to make my own way or for my partner to take me. You need to ask my partners name about this as he was spoken to about this more than myself. Most of these comments I am writing below are from the text messages I sent from my mobile phone to my partners at the time I had the concerns. They have been edited slightly to improve clarity.
    21/01/2014 Tuesday

    My baby was crying and I was seeing to her in the mosses basket. Staff came in and insisted I had to take my medication at ten. I said am seeing to my baby and I need to then eat my tea as I had made it. The staff said “I can’t keep on running up and down the stairs to you” then said she will write it down that I refused my medication. After she had left I rung her up saying I wasn’t refusing it now she said to me to talk to my case manager about it. Now it’s wrote down as a bad mark I had had enough. she won’t let me talk to on call about it to sort this out.
    31/01/2014 Friday

    On my return back from court to Dudley lodge. I was getting my baby ready for bed around eight pm. I discovered her nappy was put on to tight leaving red marks around the top of her legs. I asked Megan, who put her nappy on she said she did. I said there are red round marks on top of my baby’s legs. She also had a baby grow vest on for an early baby, 5 to 7 12 /lbs in weight. This was one of many early baby clothes I had in a carry bag in the wardrobe in the bedroom. I had told and showed the morning staff Sonya, before I left to go to Court what clothes I packed in the Mikey mouse baby bag. I don’t think the information was passed on that there was enough clothes provided for my baby.
    01/02/2014 Saturday

    Just in case used against me but shouldn’t be. I was feeding my baby around 1:40 am and had done her nappy. Finishing the rest of the other feed I felt my eyes closing, I didn’t fall asleep as I kept on opening them straight away. Annette then said do you want me to feed her I said that would be nice as you are offering and I am tired and I am not refusing. I also said it would make me look good as I let her feed my baby without problems. This is the whole truth my partners name xxx.
    Added comment. I am now writing about this after I read the final assessment report that Cheryl said I fell asleep whilst feeding my baby . Which isn’t true and I am glad I sent text messages to my partner about the concerns I had at the time, I also wrote quite a lot notes down on paper at Dudley lodge but they disappeared from the flat. After the notes disappeared one staff in particular went funny with me as a lot of the concerns were about her. I can’t prove a staff member took the notes.
    01/02/2014 Saturday

    At around 8 am Anne staff came up, as my baby needed a feed and nappy change, and spoke more about what Cheryl said. In Anne’s words, contact was offered for the weekend for my partner to see my baby but he refused it. I explained that he has travelled a lot this week and has a heart condition etc. and has to do his accountancy work this weekend. She said my baby’s priorities should come first even although I explained the reasons. Anne continued to say that Cheryl had also passed on that you’re not allowed to see baby and not to let you on the premises last night. I forgot to log this to you as well my partners name . I also asked Anne if it was passed on from Cheryl that Cheryl said to you that you can see baby for five minutes if it’s not raining and if I was upset when I got back I can have some time with you after. The night staff wasn’t aware of this information.
    Also when I spoke to Anne this morning she was defending Megan saying she used to in a nursery and is experienced in childcare trying to make out my baby had nappies what were too small. I said they weren’t as my baby has never had red round marks before when I done her nappy. And I know they are not too tight yet, as I don’t do them up on the tightest as there’s still room in the nappy. But I also explained and showed to Sonya the clothes yesterday morning. Anne still stated that the staff would have used the baby grows what was provided by me. I can guarantee I didn’t put a 5 pound sized baby grow in the baby bag. As these early baby one was in the carry bag in the wardrobe, I would like you to find out who put the small baby grow vest on, as Sonya knew about the clothes unless she didn’t tell the staff who overtook her shift.
    And my baby still had her bedtime baby grow on until after 3pm yesterday as Megan took of the tatty teddy one when she came on shift. I also told Anne about this this morning she said it was my responsibility to make sure my baby was dressed and fed before I went out. but Sonya knew and understood I had to get ready and said she would dress her for me but she didn’t. Next time I am going out during the day, I want to know for sure my baby is took care of properly.
    06/02/2014 Thursday

    I have tried my hardest these past two weeks and have surprised myself. Still I have not tried good enough, still Cheryl is making minor things into concerns like talking to staff when feeding my baby . When this evening the staff done an assessment with me when I was feeding my baby . And when my baby was crying when I was doing her nappy I spoke to the staff whilst looking at my baby so she thinks am talking to her. The staff keeping my baby’s cream in the flat this evening when not allowed. Also offering to feed my baby at 10pm this evening as I went for a cig when I said to her the staff are not supposed to. Do you want names of the staff my partners name.
    07/02/2014 Friday

    Can you also contact QCC quality care commission whatever it’s called as I am now being treated wrong and I currently live in a care home / residential placement it’s for complaints about peoples care x
    Also the same lady night staff from last night who fed my baby even when you said staff can’t let me this morning put in my baby’s milk powder on my own. You can do one thing one minute not the next minute so confusing and I then get bad marked for doing it so I now don’t care about getting staff in trouble even this night staff as she wrote about what I said about Cheryl her response was that I ring Cheryl today. Now god knows what Cheryl will do now I can’t trust no one here.
    All of these above comments are what I sent to my partners name goes here mobile phone. That’s all I have and it can be compared with what’s written by Dudley lodge about my conversations with staff members.

    On my return from being out with peter on the 2014/ 02/14 I knocked on the office door to collect my baby , I waited for a few minutes whilst a staff member went to get my baby for me. I took my baby up to the flat in her car seat with a staff member Sheila. When I went to pick my baby up I was shocked and upset to notice a scratch across my baby’s forehead. The scratch looks bigger than a baby’s scratch. I immediately mentioned this to Sheila and she seemed surprised and went quiet. This left me distressed as I have no choice but to leave my baby in staff care. I have photos of the scratch which I have forward on to my solicitor via E-mail. That evening I spoke to Cheryl about this and she didn’t seem bothered by my concerns.
    I once had a conversation with staff member Janice about my partner , the evening before I went to court. She forgot to take her laptop down with her and had left it open where she was making notes. I looked at it and found out she wrote that I said when she asked “what would you do if you found out my partner ect ect ect ect did that “I would kill him”. I didn’t say that, she prompted with “you will kill him won’t you” I didn’t say anything I just nodded in response. I didn’t say anything as I felt like I was in an awkward position. I don’t know why the staff word things in a bad way and lie about things.

    My baby Olivia is on a ICO social services wants her to be adopted I have a final hearing in July I have witness who were also treated unfair similar to me I need people to believe and for my witness to testify in court I will have a good chance of getting my baby back this happened.
    Thankyou ever so much for reading my story and I hope that you anyone can get my baby back to me where she belongs. I understand that she won’t be able to be in the family home due to my partners historical offence he’s a low risk to the public social services are saying he has to have a twelve week risk assessment to see if he is a risk to my baby this hasn’t started yet. Please can I state clearly that my partners historical offence isn’t why I went to Dudley Lodge it is because social services knew they couldn’t do anything about his offence which took place over ten years ago. So they brought my childhood into it stating that they are concerned about my ability to look after a child because of my past. This is outrageous not every child who was abused goes on to abuse other please help me my telephone number is I do have a solicitor on legal aid but i don’t know if he is successful in winning cases i am contacting anyone i think who can help me i live in Bedford Bedfordshire. if you think you can help me and decide to ring me please can my parter peter Olivia’s dad explain the details as he can explain in a better context then myself i am not to good with explaining complicated conversations to well Thankyou (01234301075 )

    I have attached you some links some facebook pages and a picture of Olivia after i collected her from staff care with a adults scratch on her forehead I have created hoping to get justice thanks again for reading.

    Charlie stout

    https://www.facebook.com/pages/Dudley-Lodge/782096871802304

    https://www.facebook.com/kaejo.samer

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-devon-27038421

    https://plus.google.com/u/0/103416662619011645283/posts

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